Monday, December 15, 2014

Love Me?

Do you love me?  How often have we thought that?  In dating it's a frequent thought in the beginning.

Say YES often too then.  Say YES I do love you to yourself, to our world, to each other.

Tevia asked Goldie via song in Fiddler on the Roof.

When I asked KD  he said "I'd be a fool not too."

We all want love in some form so live love often - define it as your are but at least LOVE

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Creating Change

I spoke with some people about World AIDS Day offering my own background, history and hopes

What I left out is what  we can or should do now so I ask you, not  just about HIV/AIDS but other parts ideas or things in your life

What did you do to make change

Lets make them so

Saturday, November 29, 2014

Lose it

I fear a few things. losing my health, my job, my fiance, Rubio.
I take steps to ensure them all

Somethings I fear that I have no  control over - for those things I'l Let Them Go

My friend Devon wrote  

I let go of the hate and anger of ghosts past and focused on happiness and facing my fears.

Wise words Devon and another tool to use toward happiness and affirmation

What can you loose to love more?

I bet you and I will gain more when we do

Tuesday, November 25, 2014


Do I say it often enough? I hope so, Do you?
It's a simple phrase that can pack a wallop.

  Thank You

To the sky for each new day
For health, good or otherwise you and I are alive
For friends
For family in any way we define them
To you my readers

Friday, November 21, 2014

Old Ideas

When I hold onto old ideas such as "I won't find... (love, a better job, a new home, acceptance) odds are I'll keep those ideas.

When I grasp new ideas and hopes odds are they'll come true

Let's reach for the new empowering affirming thoughts and actions and make them so

Tuesday, October 28, 2014


Taking time for ME is not usual. Sure I start my day with meditation often adding "Spirit and Truth" readings along with it.
My 'down time' never makes it to Facebook since it too is my own time.

Still I don't really give myself a lot of me time.

You won't be getting updates or my affirming message in your email or via Facebook for a few weeks. I am off to relax. Starting with a few days in San Juan Puerto Rico then farther away

Let's all RELAX and enjoy ME TIME as  YOUR TIME

Trust me it will help Love and Live longer

Monday, October 27, 2014


I've heard it said and wisely too "It's not the destination but the journey"

I  know I've had an awesome ever changing life.  HIV, cancer, great career, loving family, tested yet sound faith, my way fun puppy and this blog

Never did I expect to work for a grand theater, supervise/manage a community service or hear life stories of people in good and less than good times.

What a journey it's been and continues to become a wild one.  There is no longer ONE destination in sight,  I continue to work on my masters degree and begin yet a new life calling

Where do your journeys leading you?