I think Abe Lincoln once said, "I do not like that man. I must get to know him better."
What sage words even if "Honest Abe" didn't say them.
How often have I come across someone and thought "I don't like..." only to find a new friend.
By choosing to know what drives someone else, I can mirror that in me or not: at least I took the time to look.
How have you seen that in others today?